Har ek fren zaruri hota hai................

Har ek fren Zaruri hota hai….
On 28th of august 2011 I completed 28 years of my life. At reaching to this point I realised how important some people are in my life. Frens it is often said that the only relation that u can make in this life is friendship rest all relationship are decided in heaven. Thus it is at your will that whom to choose and whom to not as your friend. 28th August this day so ironic in various sense for me. As every year on my birthday there is some kind of fast for me because of the religious reason.

In last 4 years I have cut more than 2 cakes on my every birthday but because of fast I couldn’t eat my cake. In 2008 because of Ganapati navratra I had fast, in 2009 Mahalaxmi fest was there at my place on my birthday, 2010 it was the turn of Ganapati chaturthi n now in 2011 Ganapati navaratra fast, the year are different but the result is the same and i.e. I couldn’t eat my cake…..
But this doesn’t mean I had a sad birthday no you people are absolutely wrong. On every birthday of my last 4 years I had a memorable time because of my friends. Today I want to tell you about what happened to me on my latest birthday.

From last few days I was feeling because of some personal reasons. In life I have lost a lot and wasted my time just because I had expectations from people who some way or the other brought tears in my eyes. This time also nothing new was there. Thus as my birthday was approaching low feeling in my heart was increasing. I felt like no one will remember my birthday, off course this is not possible in the era of facebook where your birthday gets highlighted and out of your total friends few post wishes on your fb wall. Thus I decided to sleep before my birthday starts so that I can pretend to myself that people tried to call me on my birthday but I kept on sleeping.

As the stroke of midnight hour my friend nikhita called to wish me. She was at her granny’s place. As every there were sleeping she came out to wish me on phone. As she came out of her house some one of her family thought everybody was sleeping so he shut the door leaving nikhita outside the house. Birthday was mine and I was feeling low but nikhita was face nightmare outside the house. But eventually she entered into her house. After that my engineering college friends atul, pranav and sandeep called which made feel light in heart.

I tried to sleep whole night but was not able to sleep as I was expecting someone whom I liked the most will call me but it didn’t happened. Finally at 5 o’clock in morning fell asleep. A slight drop tear was there in my eyes as the feeling that no one liked me and especially the person whom I liked the most doesn’t like me. I my dream I went on asking god that why he is doing this to me on my birthday. I always tried to bring smile on the face of that person but why my heart is getting hurt on my birthday.

As I slept very late in night I remain in the bed till 8.30 am in morning. Suddenly I heard a loud noise of somebody knocking my door as if he wants to break it. As I was trying to gather my senses from the sleep my friends sohail, rupesh, sonam and prashant came and woke me up. They came with cake n many other things to celebrate my birthday. Suddenly sohail tied cloth on my eyes and made to sit on bed. As I sat on the bed and waited for the surprise suddenly 3-4 eggs where broken on my head. Eggs were all over my body. The most happening thing was 2 eggs broke inside Sonam’s bag. In this way she got a doze of her medicine. Eggs were everywhere in my room. Whether it was my bed or my blanket even on the body of sohail and rupesh. We yelled a lot and played with eggs then we cut the cake as I was having fast I couldn’t eat my cake but everyone including my mom enjoyed the cake. Sohail did an awesome thing for me on this birthday, every one knew how much I love Katrina Kaif, so he prepared a t-shirt with a photo print on it. He cropped my photo into pic in such a way that it looked like I was holding Katrina Kaif in my hands and she is blushing. I guess this was the best gift that someone had tried to give me. I enjoyed a lot with them. It was a dream come true for me. Just imagine Katrina that too so close to me. Was it a dream or a reality, whatever it was I liked it a lot.

Still I felt something was missing and as looked for god to help me out from this condition a small sms saying wishing u a very happy birthday brought a smile on my face. It was a cute birthday for me will remember it throughout my life time.

Friends frankly speaking in life we all give much importance to love and try to neglect friendship. In short term it looks nice but it is only the friendship which helps you to rise for the defeat. Love becomes practical after certain point of time but friends remain friends forever. When you are down the friends are always there to help you out. This birthday I missed my friend nikhita a lot because she was the person planned a great surprise for me last year. Only she knew how one can bring smile on my face on my last birthday. Similarly I will like to thank rupesh, sohail, sonam and prashant for planning such a great surprise for me this year.

How ironic it is that person whom you love doesn’t understand what brings smile on your face and what hurts you and on the other hand friends without telling anything knows everything…this is life that’s why airtel has started a new ad campaign with the tagline “Har ek Friend zaroori hota hai”….. I guess persom whom I love will understand this thing sooner or later. But whatever the case may be….my friends made my day I will always remember the cake, the egg festival and off course me getting close with Katrina… I love you shiela, shiela ki jawani…..